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Monday, March 15, 2010


after a hundred post, i am still being asked the same old question that many bloggers have failed to answer...

what is your niche in blogging?

honestly, I STILL DON'T KNOW!

i'd like to say that my blog tackles motherhood or my artistic/crafty side or, or my life as a stay at home wife... gaaah! everything that i am is in this blog! no, wait! ALMOST! (my closest blogging friends know that!) isn't it obvious that my blog is all about my randomness?

yes, i am a mother. but should i just stop there?
yes, i love crafts. but should i just stop there?
yes, i love fashion. but should i just stop there?

i am many things, my dear friends! how about you? isn't it boring if you'll just post about the latest trend or your self worshiping or technical stuff? wouldn't it be much nicer to write about the things you love and the awesome things you see everyday even if it's just about a goat giving birth and how his kid looks like? see? i'm so full of randomness. so what?!

just like parenting. we want perfection, right? BUT there's really no such thing as perfect parenting. whatever you do, no matter how hard you work, there'll come a time that they won't listen to you.

life isn't perfect. and so is blogging!

i own this blog. i will write about the things i want to write. if you don't like me -- fine! go away! if you do, you can stay. just don't touch things, ok? you might break them. it's my life that you're reading. so if you find it not interesting, just click that "x" button.

just please spare me from your ill judgment... you are not perfect either!

***this is just my opinion. if in case you feel bad about this post, i'm sorry. i'm just having a bad day like most normal people do.***

11 Freakouts:

peach360 said...

I feel you.I TOTALLY AGREE with everything that you have written... :)

We own our blog sites, IT'S OURS... and that basically gives us the right to write anything we'd like to write about - our thoughts, our feelings, the things we see... THE THINGS WE JUST WANT TO WRITE DOWN, even if it's sometimes crazy that we even write about it. And like you said, WHO CARES?! They can choose to leave our site or stay and be polite.

And for me, this post isn't offensive. It's just pure honesty. :)

shelly said...

LOL I think randomness can be fine. Maybe your niche is hodge podge. :)

i_wander said...

oh gawd! i missed you, girl! where have you been?

thank you for understanding, my dear! i'm not feeling well lately... really appreciate your visit! muah! :)

i_wander said...

@ shelly
thank you soo mmmuach! :) and thanks for the visit...actually, i think hodge podge is cuuute!


peach360 said...

Where have I been? I'm not sure too... hahaha... Been busy with my baby. Since her birth, I haven't gotten much time in front of the pc. And even if I am, I had to cut it short because she's either awake & wants a cuddle or needs milk.

I miss you too... so so much!
Let's keep intouch, kk? Hugs!

i_wander said...

oh well, i'm glad you paid visit to my blog... thank you very much honey! :)

Wilmaryad Oscallas said...

Hello, my darling. :) A niche may be important as a starting point, but once people like the author of the blog, the initial niche matters less to them since anything going in your life will be of interest to them.

That's how I view it. Congrats on the 100th post! :) Here's to the 1000th. XO

i_wander said...

oh my dear dear wilmy love!!! mmmuah! thanks for swinging by, my lurrrve! yes, you're right! i knew that it matters but time comes that you forget about it... but why am i being hated for not having a niche?

ah well, i guess i can only please one person a day and today is not their day...

missing you so much, my love! :)


Wilmaryad Oscallas said...

Nobody's hating you for having no niche. And if there's anyone doing that, just unleash me on them. I'll bring you back some teeth with which you make a necklace. ;-)

i_wander said...

haha! i like it! maybe one day, if i'm being bothered again, i'll send you the link! har har har! :) naughty friends, we are! :)

Wilmaryad Oscallas said...

Naughty or not, we shouldn't let anyone hate you, especially NOT for having no specific niche. :)